Patience is one of the first casualties of our hurried, self-focused lives. We struggle to be patient with our families, coworkers, and even strangers because we are busy and convinced our time is too important to give away. Yet patience may be the hardest—and most essential—habit to cultivate. In this episode, we see how Jesus, even in the most urgent and demanding moments of His life, moved through the pressure of crowds and suffering people with grace, focus, and deep love. At the heart of His patience was a clear understanding of time and a willingness to share it. If we hope to truly love others, patience isn’t optional—it’s foundational.

Living on Purpose

Begin with Patience

1 Corinthians 13:4; Luke 8:40-56

"Love is patient..."

Love must begin with patience - because patience is often the first thing hurry/distraction destroys.

Movement 1 - Life is often urgent v40-42

Patience lesson #1: Patience doesn't mean your situation isn't urgent.

Movement 2 - Love keeps pace with purpose v42

Patience lesson #2: Patience refuses to be ruled by hurry.

Movement 3 - In interruption find opportunity v43-48

Patience lesson #3: Patience is love showing up in you.

Movement 4 - Delay is not the worst thing, trust God v49-50

Patience lesson #4: Patience is faith refusing to interpret delay as denial.

Exodus 14:13, "Don't be afraid. Just stand still and watch the Lord rescue you today."

Movement 5 - God always has one more move; stick around for it v51-56

Patience lesson #5: Patience is love staying present long enough to finish the care.

Why is impatience dangerous to people of The Way?

Impatience is just pride in disguise. (See Proverbs 16:18, 6:16-17, James 4:6)

"The Lord isn't really being slow about his promise, as some people think. No, he is being patient for your sake. He does not want anyone to be destroyed, but wants everyone to repent." - 2 Peter 3:9

Final Thought:

What people need, isn't for us to move faster - they need us to love deeper, and love always begins with patience.